| When
Ole Hanson laid out his plans for his little Spanish Village by
the Sea we can only guess that he had no idea of the wide diversity
and genuine cultural melting pot he would someday create. San
Clemente is home to many more cultures, sub-cultures and heritages
than the casual look may suggest.
For instance, take a look at many
of the restaurants around the downtown area. What can you see?
An Italian restaurant owned by a man born in Italy, a Thai restaurant
that is Thai family owned, a Danish bakery and so on.
Expand beyond food choices to see
many of our local businesses are owned or managed by diverse cultures
with interesting traditions all their own. Go one step deeper
to our residents and you can see many come from a variety of backgrounds
both exotic and less so. Each family has its own traditions, both
new and old, and its own way of celebrating and expressing these
traditions and cultures. And their common thread is they live
or work in San Clemente.
Take
Jake and Pia Valstar. They were born and raised in Holland. Jake
hails from Rotterdam, and Pia from a small village called Dirksland
on an island in the Dutch country. They came directly to Southern
California in 1956 and raised a family while Jake worked as an
engineer. “We were sponsored by the Dutch club of Los Angeles,
because we had no relatives in America,” states Pia Valstar.
“We moved to San Clemente in 1980 after spending some time
at the campground here.” When asked what she misses the
most from ‘the old country’ Pia says, “The coziness.
Friends and family units are much more integrated and open. Meals
are shared and you never close your drapes or lock your doors.
You always expect company. While it is less private I miss the
openness of it.” Discussing holidays she talks about how
the big celebration used to be on St. Nicholas Day (December 6th)
when they would put out their wooden shoes with a carrot for St.
Nicholas’ horse (instead of reindeer), and he would replace
it with a ‘chocolate letter’. This is a bar of chocolate
with your initial carved in it.
You can often see Jake and Pia helping
out at the Robin’s Nest downtown.
Speaking of downtown, if you wish
to quickly understand how divergent our town is, take a walk up
and down Del Mar. There are many shops that announce their international
heritage. For instance start toward the top with a little shop
named “Best of Britain” that is owned and managed
by Pauline Duck. You know as soon as Pauline says “Hello”
that she is originally from Great Britain - Weymouth, Dorset to
be precise. She came to America in 1968 and San Clemente twenty
years ago after her British husband was transferred to the ‘Colonies’.
One of the more fun traditions she has ‘brought over the
pond’ with her, is to celebrate Guy Fawkes Night every year.
In England every November 5th bonfires are set alight, effigies
of Fawkes are burned, and fireworks are set off all over the isle
of Great Britain. Who was Guy Fawkes? He was only England’s
most notorious traitor. Fawkes tried to blow up the Parliament
building with 36 barrels of gunpowder in 1603 under James I (literally).
He was caught, tortured and executed. It is still unclear as to
whether the British are celebrating Fawkes’ capture or the
attempted destruction of the government. But in either case it
has become England’s version of our 4th of July celebration.
Pauline has also got Americans going ‘crackers’ at
Christmas. “Crackers” are decorative party favors
widely used in Great Britain to celebrate a variety of special
occasions and festive events. They consist of a beautifully wrapped
and decorated cardboard cylinder containing a paper tissue party
hat, a motto (British joke or riddle), a snap (popping device),
and a small gift or novelty item. Pauline says, “So many
people have started buying these for Christmas day I now run out
almost every year.” She originally began the shop because
she “couldn’t find many of the things I left behind
in England.” If you can’t take it with you, open a
store for it.
Go down the street a little and
you can chat with Parzod Mehdizadeh who was born in Iran. She
owns the 5 Elements boutique and spa. Though she moved to the
U.S. when she was only two, her parents have instilled many cultures
and ideas in her upbringing including her Iranian roots. Both
her parents were born in Iran. Her father was in the U.S. Air
Force throughout most of her childhood. Her parents instilled
a respect and love of multiple cultures as they lived in many
places, a good way to teach any child respect for others. One
of their favorite traditions is to celebrate the Persian New Year.
In Iran this day is not the 1st of January, but rather the first
day of spring. Part of the celebration includes adorning a table
with seven things that begin with the letter “S” in
Persian. Mostly these are herbs or plants, but they also add decorated
eggs and fruit along with other garnishments. Parzod likens it
to the Christmas tree meeting the Easter celebration without the
religious significance.
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| Mongkut
Thai on Ave. Del Mar. |
Now
venture across the street to the corner of Del Mar and Ola Vista
and walk into Avila’s El Ranchito. If you’re looking
for Mexican heritage, the Avila’s can fix you up a healthy
serving. Even the cover of their menu boasts that their family
came from Guanajuato, Mexico. Victor Avila and his parents moved
to the U.S. with his three siblings when he was nine. Eventually
his parents began a coffee shop in Los Angeles in 1966 and today
almost the entire Avila family is still in the restaurant business.
“Latino’s are full
of culture and traditions,” Victor said. “We get all
27 of us together every Thanksgiving and go to Cabo [San Lucas].
My kids still do things with their grandfather. They even ran
a marathon together.” The Avila’s do a lot of community
service work primarily forwarding health and education concerns
for other Latinos. They celebrate both the life they had in Mexico
and the one they have here in America.
After you leave El Ranchito head
toward the ocean and once you pass just a few doors you’ll
cross a couple of continents and wander into Thailand. At the
Mongkut Thai Restaurant, Donnie and Ning Laitipaya are both deeply
rooted in the traditions and still celebrate many of their ethnic
holidays. This includes the three main Buddhist holidays celebrating
Buddha’s birth, enlightenment and passing. They also celebrate
their New Year on April 13th. They celebrate by having a ‘pot
luck’ dinner at the temple where they also take bread that
is blessed by monks and then shared or given to others. They also
make donations to help their fellow countrymen and women in Thailand
on both the Queen and King’s birthdays of August 11th and
December 5th, respectively. Employees at Mongkut are also of Thai
descent and they take as much pride in their heritage and their
background as do the Laitipaya’s.
There are many more examples of
different cultures and countries. I have only touched on a few.
The next time you stroll down one of our beautiful streets or
along the sand, see how many cultures and countries you can spot
living, working and enjoying our Spanish Village by the sea. You
may see more cultures than in a dozen vacations, all right here
making up the sum total of all our different parts.
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Ning Laitipaya |
Victor
Avila |
Pauline
Duck |
Parzod
Mehdizadeh |
Pia
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